A Warm Drink for a Chilly Day!


I am so excited to be back home in Colorado, but I must admit the warm temperatures in California were a welcome break from the subzero cold! Maybe I should have a home in both places–in my dreams!

How can I get my body acclimated to the cold again? Staying in bed with the covers over my head perhaps? Oh yeah, I have responsibilities–that won’t work!

Warm drinks do help me! But I can only take so much caffeine! One of my favorite warm drinks to serve at teas and for my evening Bible study is spicy apple cider. Now I have made the traditional wassail and it is delicious. But there is an easy, “cheating” version, that I am more likely to do this time of year, when I have less time and energy to prepare.

The recipe is embarrassingly simple: in a crockpot, pour in a gallon of apple cider and a bag of Red Hots! Let it warm for an hour or so or until the red hots melt. I have also heated this on the stove and it comes together much more quickly in a pinch. The fragrance is like standing in an apple orchard with a bit of “zing” in the air. (My friends always ask me for the recipe and I just smile and say, “It is an old family recipe.”

Often, I will pour the red hot juice back into the Apple juice bottle and serve it up one mug at a time–just heat on the stove or in the microwave.

Let each of your children choose a favorite mug and enjoy warmth from the inside out! And maybe pull out Laura Ingalls Wilder’s The Long Winter if you need some encouragement that this isn’t the longest winter ever!

Enjoy!

Imagination ~ Something to Think About

Fritz von Uhde, The Children’s Room

Read for the Heart 11292009Growing up, my siblings and I were almost constantly in the throes of some imagined story — shipwrecked travelers, desperate orphans, disguised royalty, westward pioneers. After our obligatory hour of reading, our afternoons were often spent outdoors in worlds available only through the creative power of our minds — worlds often introduced through the stories we had read…
In the past few years I have come to the conclusion that those hours of imagination gave me far more than just good memories. As I have begun writing my first books and done a bit of speaking all over the United States, numerous people have asked me what gave me the ability to dream, what drove my desires and shaped my goals. How did my brother become a composer? My other brother a writer? What was the secret to our upbringing? The answer is simple: God, family, and … imagination.

Imagination is too often described as a ‘childish’ thing — attributed only to the young, the very creative, or the ‘artsy’ and impractical. But in reality, imagination is a transformative force that is common to all people who dream deeply enough to accomplish something of worth with their lives. At its core, imagination is the ability to envision the future we desire, the force enabling us to pursue a dream whose reality is radically different from the present. We cannot set out on a road of great hopes and determination if we have no concept of what it is we are journeying toward. Imagination drives inspired action.”
~ Sarah Clarkson in Read for the Heart pp. 147-148

When my children were younger, we had an hour of quiet time every afternoon. They each had their own basket of books, carefully selected by mom, and a treat of some type. This was an hour I truly appreciated! Mommies need a break from the go, go, go of mothering. This hour also blessed my children. They read books about history, science, Christian history, and fiction of all sorts.

These books helped stir my children’s imaginations. They could be bold heroes or delicate princesses. Every era of history could be acted out! One of our favorites was Roxaboxen, which directed hours of pretend. This sweet book is about children playing outdoors and creating their own town, Roxaboxen.

Old clothes from Goodwill and garage sales and hand sewn capes became the wardrobe for my budding actors and actresses. They made props out of anything and everything.

Children are creative, given the opportunity. If they have been given a solid diet of TV and video games, they might struggle a bit with using their minds to amuse themselves. Our culture encourages conformity, not individuality. Our Creator God gave us minds that can imagine. Schedule time this week for your children to play, indoors or outdoors and give them resources for play (dress up clothes and props)  and use their imaginations!

Here are some great children’s fiction that Sarah recommends:
Mr. Popper’s Penguins by Richard Atwater
Caddie Woodlawn by Carol Ryrie Brink
A Little Maid series by Alice Turner Curtis
The Twenty-One Balloons by William Pene du Bois

These are books that make wonderful read alouds as a family, or they can be given to older children to read on their own. What book are you reading to your children this season? May the Lord bless you as you stoke the fires of your children’s imaginations! Pick up Sarah’s book with 384 inspiring pages!

Christmas ~ A Time to Enjoy Reading Aloud!

Sarah’s Book on Books ~ a great Christmas gift idea!

On a storm-blown Sunday afternoon in a creaky old manor house in England, I rediscovered the timeless delight of classic children’s books. It took me by surprise. I was one of about thirty international students studying and living in England for the summer, and this was our first British teatime all together. A shy, awkward silence had fallen about us as we tried our best to balance philosophy, sophistication, and hot mugs of tea, when one of our tutors said something that sent us all staring.
“Let’s read Winnie-the-Pooh.”
A swift current of suppressed mirth ran the length of the room, but we were up for some fun, and the tutor assigned each person a part in the story. Pooh’s expedition to the North Pole was the story of choice, and before we knew what was happening we were immersed in the comical, compact world of the Hundred Acre Woods. The story had all of us — tutors, college students, post-graduates, old, and young — laughing until our sides literally ached.”
Read for the Heart pp. 113-114

Reading together as a family is a Clarkson tradition. Hours of memories have been made around good books. During the holiday season, busyness can rob you of precious time spent together as a family. Since all children should sleep at night, should being the key word, start the bedtime routine a little bit earlier and pull out a favorite book to read. If Pooh is a bit daunting by its size, try some holiday picture books or some shorter chapter books. Two that are recommended by Whole Hearted children are The Best Christmas Pageant Ever and Cosmic Christmas. Enjoy their reviews!

The Best Christmas Pageant Ever is a book I like each Christmas because it is a funny, family-friendly story.  It has inspired me to look at Christmas differently and a little more realistically.  For example, what if Jesus had colic?  The only thing about this book is that it has some questionable language so is better if Mom or Dad reads it aloud and edits as they read.
~ Reviewed by 10 year old young lady

Cosmic Christmas by Max Lucado ( also recently published as The Angel Story) opens a unique porthole into the uncommonly written realm of angels.    It is written from Gabriel’s perspective on his mission to give Mary the seed of Christ as Satan is desperately trying to stop him.   While it is written from a biblical Christian perspective, this soul stirring book provides a new look on the ” all is calm , all is bright”  normal theme of Christmas.

This book is a must read in our home each year.
~ Reviewed  by 13 year old boy

What books are you reading to your children this holiday season? May the Lord bless the time you spend together!

Great quotes! Louisa May Alcott’s home.

Too busy talking to friends, so I asked Joy and Christie, (my daughter and her bf) to write the past couple of days as they share some of their impressions. What fun I am having and how blessed I am to have a few days of pure fun! Here are just a few of the great quotes we saw as we walked through Louisa May’s home–the author of so many wonderful books, including Little Women.

“I am not afraid of storms, for I am learning how to sail my ship.”
- Louisa May Alcott

So true.

“Far away there in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow where they lead.”
— Louisa May Alcott

“A faithful friend is a strong defense;
And he that hath found him hath found a treasure.”
— Louisa May Alcott

Great memories and tears coming to my eyes several times. What fun we have had running through halls of history, homes of great writers and talking, talking, talking as we go.

The girls brought tears to my eyes yesterday morning. “Who gets to have an education like this! To read their stories and then to see the lives these great people lived and to know the rooms where they lived and wrote, the places they fought battles–makes us so very grateful to have known and seen these things! It makes me want to think, “How am I going to live my life in such a way as to leave a legacy of faith or courage that will help and influence others.”

And so we have been busy every minute, and in the evenings we have had precious conversations with friends where we are staying and being treated to great meals, rousing conversations and heart-felt prayers. Such a blessing to me and a filling of my soul. All grateful to God for strewing my life with such blessings.

Deb, Jane, me and Shelley (below) staying up too late but having fun talking around the kitchen table. What great food and hospitality. 

Off to see Paul Revere’s home! and then training to New York City for more fun and friends. Have a blessed day.

Now the link for the article on boys reading works!

Sorry! I was gone most of the day but the link on the boys reading article works now. Here it is again!

http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748704271804575405511702112290.html?KEYWORDS=THOMAS+SPENCE

How to raise boys who read

Wall Street Journal article on inspiring boys to read.

“Mom, I really need to talk to you about something that I keep forgetting to tell you. Please call me as soon as you can.”

My heart skipped a beat. When I get this kind of text or email from one of my boys, I worry. Is he out of money? Has he had a fender-bender? It is something serious?

And so I called Nathan as soon as I could. 

“Mom, I am out of books to read and in my days off, I want something to inspire me or encourage me. Will you send me a couple of more books that you recommend? I always read everything you and Sarah like and it keeps me going. The books you have sent over the past couple of years have almost been like companions to me and they speak to me when I am working. I am out of good reading material now and I miss it. Please send something soon.”

Oh my goodness! What a relief! But to know that his soul still craves brain and heart food. To know that this boy who was wiggling, moving, always active when I was reading to him those long hours, was taking it into his heart and soul, was quite affirming to me a week ago when he wrote. 

The book I put in the mail was one I had just finished. The Prodigal God. It was an easy read, but I knew Nate would enjoy it. Now Sarah has picked up a couple of pieces of fiction to send to him. Her last was Three Cups of Tea. Nathan loved that. He always loved Brother Andrew’s book on his life story, God’s Smuggler and used to give it to his friends.

Boys and young men need to have hero tales in their hearts, models of bravery in their souls. Books serve to feed their need for sacrificial, brave, hero living. Books give them a pattern for the foundations of their lives. Boys want to be a part of a movement or work greater than themselves. Good books call out to every boys desire to be a knight in shining armor. But modern day media just captures their time but builds nothing.

I let my boys play with legos while listening, if they were quiet. Some days I gave them sketching pads with colored pencils. Other days, popcorn and hot chocolate. In our cozy room by the fire place we spent hours upon hours of reading outloud and sharing in captivating stories. These stories shaped their souls, built vocabulary, encouraged amazing writing patterns. People ask me how it is that all of my children are exception writers. I think it is because the appetite of their minds was shaped by great writers–what went in came out. Great literature planted great patterns of communication in their minds–it was as simple as that. Far more important to a child’s brain is reading aloud and capturing the imagination of children with great, inspiring stories than in using a grammar book.

Here is an article that speaks to these issues of building boys into readers.

A Story of giving and becoming rich….Eugene Peterson



Eugene Peterson author  

For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though He was rich, yet for your sake He became poor, so that you through His poverty might become rich. 2 Corinthians 8:9

 Clay and I have been in the mountains at a retreat center for the past two days hearing one of our favorite writers, Eugene Peterson, review his most recent books. What a privilege it was to soak in the conversations, the wisdom and experiences He and His wife shared their stories and their lives with all of us who attended. Eugene is 78 and his wife Jan, 75 and they have given their whole lives to ministry. 

Most of those in attendance (only 90), were seasoned church leaders and pastors. At a gathering early one morning, the women were pouring out their hearts to find wisdom and encouragement from Jan. Subjects covered:  ”Did you ever doubt your call to ministry? Did you have problems in your marriage? How did you deal with the work load of your husband? What about financially difficult times? The pressure on children can be hard to handle. I get so depleted that I just want to run away from it all.” And other heart cries. 

There is something true about misery loving company. When we see that others struggle, we also find comfort that it is not just us–and that we are not neurotic, that others are experiencing the same thing, and that it is possible to live through our common trials in life. It was great to be in the company of so sweet a couple who had given–had spent their lives for others, and held on valiantly to Christ.

What struck me the most, was how their lives, messages, books and compassion for others came out of their failures, the messes of life, the dark times, as well as years of faithfulness and seeking God. Rhythms of “A Long Obedience in the Same Direction.” (the title of one of his books.) 

They had 7 years they called the “badlands” because life was so very difficult and depressing. And yet, it was from this that the core of Eugene’s books were written. 

There was a time they had even had difficulty buying groceries for their 4 children, so they reverted to powdered milk because it was cheaper. (a little side story that Jan shared–but so like the details of life issues that are ours every day.)

 Pondering my own life, I could see similar patterns of Gods work even in the small daily grind. From being humbled, I learned compassion for others. From being in the dark, I learned that God was in control. From being needy, I learned that I could live without. From being in pain, I found HIs comfort and love. From living in the limitations and fears of the times I am living in, I learned to long for heaven.

Oddly enough, there was a verse in my quiet time while I was there that seemed to tie into the days of thoughts.

One verse really pulsed through my mind again and again, “For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though He was rich, for your sake He became poor.”

Eugene and Jan gave up everything in their lives to follow Jesus. They pursued him during dark times, they served others and gave themselves, that those they served might become rich. They took in 4 children whose mother died of cancer. They visited people, ill and needy and stayed committed in ministry to the unattractive who needed love, grace and patience. 

Through their faithfulness and holding tenaciously to Christ, their story became a testimony that enriched our own lives. 

Jesus, God incarnate, became poor that I might become rich. Gave up supreme heavenly authority and splendor, to become a fragile, vulnerable baby in a wicked world. Became a man of sorrows, acquainted with grief by entering personally into the conflict, pain, and suffering of strangers in his life, to bear them up, to heal them, to champion their cause.

Dirt on his feel from walking dusty roads, hunger from preaching too long in the hot sun; Tickling, embracing, blessing the wiggly children running into His arms, thrusting tables and cages in wrath that overcame Him from conniving, thieves taking advantage of the naive, sincere worshippers; putting up with foolishness and arguing of His followers, experiencing rejection from those he had created. 

So, is it too much to ask that I spend my life, abandoning my rights, pouring out my time and love on the needy and undeserving, as He did to me?

This concept of servant leadership is the foundation that fueled my own understanding of being a mother, modeling Him in my home. It became a picture of what He wanted me to do in marriage—spending my life so that Clay could become richer. It is for Him that we serve–and in serving Him, our hearts are filled.

So, this week: Calculating and evaluating, “To whom has He called me to give up myself, my time, my love and prayers, my words of life, my service, that they might become rich? 

My children, my husband, my friends, those sweet moms in my ministry that I want to shepherd and encourage. I expending my life–giving it away, that others may become rich–this is what I am learning this week as I seek how I may better understand my precious Lord. 

And yet I have found that it is in coming to that point of deciding to give when He asks of me, that I, in the end, become more filled in my heart with the assurance of His love and presence. “He who loses his life for my sake, will find it.” 

Thank you, Eugene and Jan for becoming for me this week a living picture of a real life lived out in giving yours away.

My own personal favorite books of his: Christ plays in Ten Thousand Places; Running with the Horses; Eat This Book.

These books are more theological in nature, focussing on the life of Christ and the life of Christ in ministry. Widely read by pastors (and those who like these kinds of books–like me!) 


Great research on attentive mothers–and reading books!

Sitting in my little cozy chair with soft, cool breezes wafting all around me and so very, very grateful for this moment. God’s love and grace washed over me in unexpected moments today–

grateful for His leadership in my life. It was not necessarily what I would have given to me, but the results are oh so much better. How good He is, how much He wants to bring us to freedom and joy and a heart that values the eternal.

grateful that my children are, for the moment, walking with God.

grateful that He didn’t make their lives easy, but that He used the difficulties in their lives to make them strong.

grateful that I get to teach and speak and study His word. Can’t wait for this weekend–face to face with godly women, sharing in ideals and dreams and faith and Him over tea and food and candlelight and flowers and with great friends I have not seen for a while, but who have made my life rich.

Must off to finish the notebook and deadlines of other sorts, but wanted to share some great articles I have read where science validates what we know God designed us to do. Enjoy!

Motherly love does breed confidence

The Medium Is the Medium

 

 

Then the researchers, led by Richard Allington of the University of
Tennessee, looked at those students’ test scores. They found that the
students who brought the books home had significantly higher reading
scores than other students. These students were less affected by the
“summer slide” — the decline that especially afflicts lower-income
students during the vacation months. In fact, just having those 12
books seemed to have as much positive effect as attending summer
school.

This study, along with many others, illustrates the tremendous power of books. We already knew, from research in 27 countries,
that kids who grow up in a home with 500 books stay in school longer
and do better. This new study suggests that introducing books into
homes that may not have them also produces significant educational
gains.

Recently, Internet mavens got some bad news. Jacob Vigdor and Helen Ladd of Duke’s Sanford School of Public Policy examined computer use
among a half-million 5th through 8th graders in North Carolina. They
found that the spread of home computers and high-speed Internet access
was associated with significant declines in math and reading scores.

This study, following up on others, finds that broadband access is not
necessarily good for kids and may be harmful to their academic
performance. And this study used data from 2000 to 2005 before Twitter
and Facebook took off.

These two studies feed into the debate that is now surrounding Nicholas Carr’s book,
“The Shallows.” Carr argues that the Internet is leading to a
short-attention-span culture. He cites a pile of research showing that
the multidistraction, hyperlink world degrades people’s abilities to
engage in deep thought or serious contemplation.

Carr’s argument has been challenged. His critics point to evidence that
suggests that playing computer games and performing Internet searches
actually improves a person’s ability to process information and focus
attention. The Internet, they say, is a boon to schooling, not a
threat.

But there was one interesting observation made by a philanthropist who
gives books to disadvantaged kids. It’s not the physical presence of
the books that produces the biggest impact, she suggested. It’s the
change in the way the students see themselves as they build a home
library. They see themselves as readers, as members of a different
group.

The Internet-versus-books debate is conducted on the supposition that
the medium is the message. But sometimes the medium is just the medium.
What matters is the way people think about themselves while engaged in
the two activities. A person who becomes a citizen of the literary
world enters a hierarchical universe. There are classic works of
literature at the top and beach reading at the bottom.

A person enters this world as a novice, and slowly studies the works of
great writers and scholars. Readers immerse themselves in deep,
alternative worlds and hope to gain some lasting wisdom. Respect is
paid to the writers who transmit that wisdom.

A citizen of the Internet has a very different experience. The Internet
smashes hierarchy and is not marked by deference. Maybe it would be
different if it had been invented in Victorian England, but Internet
culture is set in contemporary America. Internet culture is
egalitarian. The young are more accomplished than the old. The new
media is supposedly savvier than the old media. The dominant activity
is free-wheeling, disrespectful, antiauthority disputation.

These different cultures foster different types of learning. The great
essayist Joseph Epstein once distinguished between being well informed,
being hip and being cultivated. The Internet helps you become well
informed — knowledgeable about current events, the latest controversies
and important trends. The Internet also helps you become hip — to learn
about what’s going on, as Epstein writes, “in those lively waters
outside the boring mainstream.”

But the literary world is still better at helping you become
cultivated, mastering significant things of lasting import. To learn
these sorts of things, you have to defer to greater minds than your
own. You have to take the time to immerse yourself in a great writer’s
world. You have to respect the authority of the teacher.

Right now, the literary world is better at encouraging this kind of
identity. The Internet culture may produce better conversationalists,
but the literary culture still produces better students.

It’s better at distinguishing the important from the unimportant, and making the important more prestigious.

Perhaps that will change. Already, more “old-fashioned” outposts are
opening up across the Web. It could be that the real debate will not be
books versus the Internet but how to build an Internet counterculture
that will better attract people to serious learning.

A great article on the importance of reading! Paying attention!

 

Pray and see what God does! You tube!

Thanks for everyone who has sent emails or commented or who is praying. I will do the  24 Family Ways giveaway later on Monday, but until then, please let me hear from you and let’s join in prayer together.

As I mentioned earlier in the summer, I was on a quest to refresh my soul this summer, as I am constantly giving out. One of my friends suggested I read Fresh Wind, Fresh Fire. I so enjoyed this book and it began a desire in my heart to call out women to begin prayer chains, groups, pray with their children, pray in families, pray in groups.

Seems we have seen a lot of impotence in the lives of believers. We have allowed immorality to take over, we have not sought God or lived Holy lives. I know that many go to church and many give sacrificially. But so many wonderful women in my life seem to feel discouraged, overwhelmed and burdened. I know it is a fallen world and we will have lots of difficulty as this is the fallen place.

But I believe God wants to do a great work in our time. I have seen that when people pray and read the word and worship intentionally, the Holy Spirit seems to sweep across the lands and brings about major revival.

What if we could see amazing things happen all over the world because of a wave of women joining to hold fast in prayer, engaging their hearts in God’s word, and stepping out boldly in faith. I have seen the Lord do so much more in my lifetime than I would ever have thought possible. He is looking to strongly support that heart that is enthusiastically responding to His word and love in the private, unseen room in their home or apartment. Right where you are, where no one else can see, God can see you and is committed to responding to your faith and love for Him.

God wants to respond and He wants to bless. He delights in doing supernatural works through normal people like you and me–the little boy with the fish and loaves; David and the giant; Joshua and the trumpets; Gideon against the Mideonites and so many more stories. I really want to be one of those who said, “In my lifetime, use me Lord to bring as many thousands as you would allow, to commit their lives to you, to love you, to live boldly for your kingdom. Please fan the flames in my children’s lives to live boldly for you, that they may be your warriors for your kingdom in this time of history. Let them be faithful until they see you face to face.

Will you join me in praying and asking God to pour out His spirit and grace. And then will you boldly step out in faith, right where you are–to share with others, to be God’s hands and voice and love to those He brings your way?

Lets have big hearts for a wonderful God and bring His light and life and kingdom to bear on our lives and in the lives of others. May He bless you today.

Turning Pages

Hello Everyone, it’s me, Marissa. I have been very good about sticking to my 50 book challenge for this spring and summer. Where did I get all the book ideas? I looked them up in Sarah Clarkson’s book Read for the Heart. This book was a great reference when I needed book ideas that would be fun to read during my challenge. 

The book I just finished was titled 100 Cupboards by N.D. Wilson. This particular book I did not find in Sarah Clarkson’s book, this book my mom found for me in World News Magazine. This Christian author made an adventure that was hard to put down. From sunrise to sunset I was looking forward to reading where I had left off. Henry York gets sent to his aunt and uncles house in Henry, Kansas when his parents are sent to a foreign country and don’t return. Henry gets the guest bedroom located in the attic and soon discovers a wall full of magic cupboards. Henry and his cousin Henrietta take many wonderful, and scary, adventures through this wall of magic cupboards. I recommend this book for older children since this book can be scary in some sections. 

So, how many books have you completed so far? Have you taken on a 50 book challenge as well? If you have any good reads that you recommend I would love to know! One of your books may end up on my list. The next book I will be working on will be Dandelion Fire by N.D. Wilson. It is the second book in the 100 Cupboards trilogy. Keep on turning those pages!

To order Sarah Clarkson’s Read for the Heart click HERE.