What Mother can find favor with God?

Alfredo Rodan

“Greetings, favored one, the Lord is with you.” Luke 1:28

Oh, how I wish these words expressed how God felt about me–would God see me as the kind of woman He would choose now to mother the most high God? By what means did she find favor, in the hidden moments of her life? These thoughts swirled around in my mind.

Mary lived in a tiny, obscure village amidst a humdrum life. Wheat was ground, bread was pounded out on wooden tables, crumbs were swept from the floor, children lovingly tended, mother and father presiding over the home, the Shema was listened to every day over shared family meals, the Sabbath was kept. Mary lived in invisibility in the moments of an ordinary, obscure life, as far as anyone in her own life knew. And yet, in the living of her life, quietly, faithfully, God noticed her, God saw her and she found favor and pleased His heart.

God always sees even when no one else is noticing.

Imagine being greeted by an angel, in the midst of a normal day, when no one else knew, “Hail favored one.”

And then, “Mary, do not be afraid, for you have found favor with God.”

Really? She did not have a college degree or a ministry position or title and had never published a book or even spoken in the synagogue–and yet, in the midst of her quiet life, she of all women, had found favor with God. I have been pondering this.

But there are clues.Being the mother of Jesus would require a tenacious, steady, engaged faith. As his mother, her  life would be  in danger, Jesus would be  pursued by a crazy king, and at every point, people would cast doubt on her irregular, fantastical story.

 Satan would have wanted to prevent Jesus becoming savior and Mary would be his protector–a shelter from danger, a nurturer of his soul, a provider of truth, a teacher and trainer, a strength in storms–all of this she would be asked to be for God, the baby, entrusted into her hands, as his mother, a divinely appointed role.

She would have to move, put up with peer pressure of her own village, believe in the miraculous, obscure amongst the humble, live amidst despised Egyptians. Her life would be filled with stress, pressure, rejection, fear, loneliness and questions.

And yet, God had called her favored, He had seen her heart, he had noticed her response throughout her life, He had tested her willingness to obey, and she had been found faithful, and so she was favored.

Henry Ossawa Tanner

Her response, ready on her lips, practiced in her heart.

““Behold, the]bondslave of the Lord; may it be done to me according to your word.” Luke 1:38

God looked for one who would serve Him, willingly, readily, at the moment of His impossible request, one who would respond in utter submission.

I am your bondslave–a commitment he had seen in her prayers, through out her life as she engaged her heart in scripture, He had seen her practice of worship by choosing, through all the years of her training, her response of believing and her heart consecration to serve Him, to obey throughout the seemingly unnoticed moments of her life.

One who considers themselves a servant, believes and lives to accomplish the will of her master. Is that my heart–to obey, willingly, whatever He would ask?

Is that my response to this life He has given to me–be it done according to your will for I am your bond-servant? Even if it means sacrifice of the plans I hold dear? Even if it means being misunderstood? Rejected? Chased? Inconvenienced? Even if it requires me to have courage against fears that will assail my life?

And yet, we are left  another clue. Elizabeth, her older cousin, who had also lived above reproach and obeyed God, upon seeing Mary, responded,

“And blessed is she who believed that there would be a fulfillment of what had been spoken to her by the Lord.”

Mary believed God.

She had a ready heart to believe Him, trust Him with all that it would require of her, to await the miraculous, to live through long years of waiting and quiet and mundanity, as she awaited to see this little baby become the expected Messiah, the fulfillment of His role as a savior.

She believed there would be a fulfillment.

 She had practiced believing in Him her whole life and this, I think, was in part, what would qualify her to be the mother of the son of God, she was ready, willing to immediately respond to Him in belief–even to the impossible–even in the obscure place of dust, dishes, and duty.

And so God shined His light on my soul this early morning as I pondered Mary in His presenceam I ready to believe, to obey wherever He takes me, to await the fulfillment of His word and to choose to believe in His future fulfillment of faithfulness in my own life and in my own prayers–even if the ultimate fulfillment will take years and years, as it took Mary?

So, today, as I live amongst feasting, gift-wrapping, cleaning, sharing hearts and thoughts, singing beloved hymns at church, celebrating in the sparkle of our Christmas home, I hope that He will find me, in the integrity of my heart,  obeying, responding, bowing my knee to His will, a bondservant whose heart is ready to follow, obey, accept limitations of a world at battle for righteousness, and yet ready, in His strength, to believe.

May He prepare your heart today to worship in the quietness of your life, right where you are. May He bless you with His peace and grace.

I pray you have a most blessed and favored Christmas, and that God gently leads you, and me,  to embrace for our lives, the integrity that characterizes of the story of Mary, His choice to be the mother of his own son.


Sweet Peeps,
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  1. Judy says

    Beautiful Sally.

    Just this – thank you.

    “Mary lived in invisibility in the moments of an ordinary, obscure life, as far as anyone in her own life knew. And yet, in the living of her life, quietly, faithfully, God noticed her, God saw her and she found favor and pleased His heart.

    God always sees even when no one else is noticing.”

    And the Tanner painting – stunning – the light is glorious!

  2. Julia says

    This really makes me consider my days and my attitude. Really need to reread and spend some time thinking and praying. One thing I picked up was that in the midst of humbly serving her God, her Lord sent her comfort and confirmation via her female cousin. Someone who could be with her and share her joy.

  3. says

    This is my most favorite post..ever! I needed to hear this today and God used you mightily to encourage this momma of the children God has given me through my womb and those He has given me to spiritually mother. It has been a difficult few weeks and I just told Him last week in my heart ‘may it happen to me as He has spoken’. As a handmaiden looks to her Master, I look to my Abba even in the midst of persecution. This is easier said than done but the joy of The Lord is my strength!

  4. says

    Beautiful post I really loved this…..I think every woman has fantasized, wondered, pondered, what if it had been me?? God loves and notices us ALL….

  5. Michelle Clinton says

    Haven’t read the post yet, but had to share this quote from the back of my tea box…

    “Let us love winter, for it is the spring of genius.” Pietro Aretino

    I smiled and thought of you sweet friend.

  6. Demetra says

    I am dealing with being separated from my children following an ugly divorce. I sometimes feel that I’m not fulfilling my role as mom because Im not there everyday anymore.

    My children chose to move with Dad after a custody battle. He bought there love and I refused to. Will you help me get over the fact that Im not there everyday and that I am being the best steward that I can under my creator’s kingdom?

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